The Books List, Part 14

20 Books I Would Recommend Reading, 5 Books I Wouldn't, and 50 from my Reading List

The weather is starting to warm up and Memorial Day is right around the corner! Time for another Books List post, because we are gonna head to the beach and read our little hearts out!

My likes/loves: These are books that entertained me, moved me, taught me things, made me think, inspired me, and that I would heartily recommend. They are not ranked – they are merely in the order in which I read them.

1. Survivor – Chuck Palahniuk

2. Tokyo Travel Sketchbook – Amaia Arrazola

3. Pale Fire – Vladimir Nabokov

4. Atonement – Ian McEwan

5. The King in the Tree – Steven Millhauser – read my review: https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2023/08/review-of-king-in-tree-by-steven.html

6. Invisible Man – Ralph Ellison

7. What's Eating Us: Women, Food, and the Epidemic of Body Anxiety – Cole Kazdin

8. Marvel 1602 – Neil Gaiman/Andy Kubert

9. Bombshells vol. 1: Enlisted – Marguerite Bennett

10. Just After Sunset – Stephen King

11. JLA Earth 2 – Grant Morrison/Frank Quitely

12. The Shifting Tide – Anne Perry

13. The Face of a Stranger – Anne Perry

14. A Dangerous Mourning – Anne Perry

15. Defend and Betray – Anne Perry

16. My Headless Son Fred and His Head Baby Brother Headley: The Curious Tale of Filmon Trout – T. Hudson Roberts

17. Dietland – Sarai Walker

18. A Tale of Two Cities – Charles Dickens

19. The Mermaid Chair – Sue Monk Kidd

20. All that Remains – Patricia Cornwell

My meh/yuck list: Did not find these appealing for any number of reasons – some were boring; some had an interesting subject but did not do it justice; some were flat-out terrible. All simply left me cold in some way. Although I am likely to read multiple books by authors I like (you will see a lot of Dean Koontz, Haruki Murakami, Margaret Atwood, Charles deLint and Toni Morrison), I do not excuse those authors when they write a book I didn't like, so they might just show up here, as well.

1. The Pocket Powter – Susan Powter

2. Hillbilly Elegy – J.D. Vance

3. Lolita -Vladimir Nabokov

4. The Fountainhead – Ayn Rand

5. A Confederacy of Dunces – John Kennedy Toole

My Reading List: these are books I haven't read yet, so I don't have a reaction for you. However, I could semi-recommend them, based on the reasons they made it onto my list:

1. They were on one of those “100 Greatest Books” lists;

2. They are other books written by authors I really enjoy; or

3. I read a review, and it sounded like something I'd like.

#1 can be a bit hit-or-miss; #2 is almost (but not always) foolproof for me (but maybe not for you), and #3 usually works out pretty well, as it's a combination of the first two. As always, your results may vary, but consider them suggestions. These may tend to come in chunks of stuff by author (apologies).

1. How We Think – John Dewey

2. Humboldt's Gift – Saul Bellow

3. Humphrey Clinker – Tobias Smollett

4. Hyperion – Friedrich Hölderlin

5. I Capture the Castle – Dodie Smith

6. I Hate Other People's Kids – Adrianne Frost

7. I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings – Maya Angelou

8. I, Robot – Isaac Asimov

9. Idyls of the King – Alfred Tennyson

10. If Not Now, When? – Primo Levi

11. If On a Winter's Night a Traveler – Italo Calvino

12. If This Is a Man – Primo Levi

13. Ignorance – Milan Kundera

14. I'm Not Stiller – Max Frisch

15. Impressions of Africa – Raymond Roussel

16. In a Free State – V.S. Naipaul

17. In a Glass Darkly – Sheridan Le Fanu

18. In a House of Dreams and Glass – Robert Klitzman

19. In Parenthesis – David Jones

20. In Sicily – Elio Vittorini

21. In the Forest – Edna O'Brien

22. In the Heart of the Country – J.M. Coetzee

23. In Watermelon Sugar – Richard Brautigan

24. Independent People – Hallidor Laxness

25. Indigo – Marina Warner

26. Inside Mr. Enderby – Anthony Burgess

27. Intimacy – Hanif Kureishi

28. Invisible Cities – Italo Calvino

29. Ironweed – William Kennedy

30. Islands – Dan Sleigh

31. Jack Maggs – Peter Carey

32. Jacob's Room – Virginia Woolf

33. Jacques the Fatalist – Denis Diderot

34. Jahrestage – Uwe Johnson

35. Jazz – Toni Morrison

36. Jealousy – Alain Robbe-Grillet

37. Joseph Andrews – Henry Fielding

38. Journey to the Center of the Earth – Jules Verne

39. Journey to the End of the Night – Louis Céline

40. Jude the Obscure – Thomas Hardy

41. Julie, or The New Eloise – Jean-Jacques Rousseau

42. July's people – Nadine Gordimer

43. Junkie – William Burroughs

44. Justine – Lawrence Durrell

45. Kafka on the Shore – Haruki Murakami

46. Keep the Aspidistra Flying – George Orwell

47. Kidnapped – Robert Louis Stevenson

48. King Lear of the Steppes – Ivan Turgenev

49. King Solomon's Mines – H. Rider Haggard

50. Kingdom of this World – Alejo Carpentier

That's all for now; hope you find these lists useful as you think about things you might like to read. If you want more, more, more, you can find the previous lists at these links:

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2020/03/the-books-list-part-one.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2020/04/the-books-list-part-two.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2020/05/the-books-list-part-three.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2020/05/the-books-list-part-four.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2020/09/the-books-list-part-five.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2020/11/the-books-list-part-six.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2021/05/the-books-list-part-seven.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2021/12/the-books-list-part-eight.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2022/02/the-books-list-part-nine.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2022/05/the-books-list-part-10.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2026/01/the-books-list-part-11-20-books-i-would.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2026/02/the-books-list-part-12.html

https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2026/04/the-books-list-part-13-20-books-i-would.html

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Improve Your Vocabulary-Today’s Lesson: Greek Roots, Part 3

 

You will recall that we left the festivities at the letter D, so let’s leave E in the dust (there’s no F in Greek) and move right along to G and H, shall we? Lots of things to do!

Today, we will cover the root gam, which refers to marriage. You will recognize this root in the words bigamy (married to two people, which is generally illegal), and polygamy, which denotes marriages to more than two people, also generally illegal. People who practice bigamy and polygamy are known as bigamists and, uh, Mormons. Just kidding!! There’s also the lesser-known word, misogamist, meaning one who is against marriage.

Secondly, we have gen, Greek for birth, race, or kind. Congenital denotes a characteristic one has at birth, such as webbed toes or attached earlobes. Often you will hear of things such as congenital heart defects. “Con” means “with”, so congenital literally means “with birth”. It's closely related to genetic, which refers to a trait or condition that runs in your family (therefore also related somewhat to birth, but more in a long-term way, so closer to the “race/kind” meaning). Other words with the root gen are genealogy, the study of your family ancestry (your race or kind), and progenitor (pro meaning “first” or “prior”), which is a fancy way to say “ancestor”, which is already kind of a fancy way to say “forefather” (also not as sexist).

Lastly, let’s dip our toes into the H's and come up with hydr, meaning simply “water”. Hydraulic things are mechanically operated by water or other liquids, hydroponics is the science of growing things in water, rather than soil, and we should all make sure to keep well hydrated, especially if you live or work in dry air or lose moisture from sweating.

I hope you had fun with this installment of Greek roots. There are many more to come, so stay tuned! Opa!

Did you learn the basic steps to building your vocabulary?  here’s step one, here’s step two, and here’s step three.

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How to Make Sure that Bad Habit You Dumped Stays Dumped

 

So, you've managed to dump a bad habit, like smoking or eating unhealthy food. Congrats to you! Also, good luck staying on the straight and narrow, because addictions are super hard not to fall back into.

Why so? The problem is not just that they are habits, but that sugar and nicotine are drugs that stimulate the pleasure centers of the brain, setting up a reward feedback for the consumption. So that's the stumbling block if you try to go cold turkey, and that's what the slippery slope is greased with, if you make that first doughnut shop visit: endorphins, the "feel-good" hormones that not only make you feel pleasure, they actually put a damper on pain, which is why you really do feel better after having such things.

But we all know that stuff is really bad for you! So what's the trick to stay quit? Well, it's not to live a monastic lifestyle of denial, because humans just aren't built that way. Instead, find a substitute activity that makes you feel pleasure. Something healthy, of course! A lot of people are pleased to find out that they can get a real high from exercise. I'm personally a fan of exercise-that-doesn't-feel-like-exercise, like dancing, sports, etc. Eating celery and putting in hours on the treadmill doesn't sound nearly as much fun as eating donuts and smoking, does it? But swimming and roller skating? I'll take that any day!

Another trick: don't just “use willpower,” because willpower is a battery, and batteries run down. Set up your life so that you don’t have to wrestle a craving every five minutes. Don’t keep the cigarettes, chips, soda, or whatever-your-thing-is sitting around like a tiny little villain on the kitchen counter. Make the bad habit inconvenient and the good choice stupidly easy. Put fruit where you can see it. Keep your gym shoes by the door. Have gum, tea, crunchy carrots, or some other “hands/mouth busy” option ready before the craving shows up with a megaphone.

Also, watch out for your triggers, because bad habits love a routine. Maybe you always wanted a smoke after coffee, or dessert after dinner, or junk food when you’re stressed, bored, lonely, tired, or celebrating because hey, Tuesday happened. Once you know the pattern, you can mess with it. Take your coffee outside and walk around the block. Brush your teeth right after dinner. Text a friend when you're feeling stressed instead of opening the snack cabinet like it contains the meaning of life (and do you need a snack cabinet?!?). You’re not just quitting a habit; you’re rewriting the little script your brain has been following.

Speaking of friends, another biggie when it comes to staying on track is the power of the "buddy system." It is way too easy to talk yourself into a "just this once" moment when you’re the only one watching. But if you’ve got a friend who knows you’re trying to quit the sweets or the smokes, they can be the external conscience you need. Whether it’s a workout partner or just someone you can chat with when the cravings hit hard, having that layer of accountability makes it much harder to sneak a "cheat" without feeling the sting of disappointment. Plus, doing hard things is just less miserable when you have someone else in the trenches with you to complain—and celebrate—with.

Finally, give yourself some grace if you hit a bump in the road. A lot of people fall into the "all-or-nothing" trap where they think that one single slip-up means they’ve failed completely, so they might as well go all in on the bad habit again. That’s like dropping your phone and then deciding to smash it with a hammer just because it has one tiny scratch! If you have a moment of weakness, don’t let it turn into a week of indulgence. Just acknowledge the slip, realize it was those pesky endorphins trying to hijack your brain again, and get right back on the wagon. One bad day doesn’t erase all your progress unless you let it. Celebrate the wins, learn from the wobbles, and keep going. Progress is not always glamorous, but neither is coughing up a lung or feeling awful after a sugar binge, so, honestly? Progress wins!

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Improve Your Vocabulary-Today’s Lesson: Greek Roots, Part 2

Here's Part One: https://bucketofuseful.blogspot.com/2026/04/improve-your-vocabulary-roots-part-one.html

We have already learned a ton of prefixes, as well as the Greek roots anthropo, arch, and chron, so have you been having fun so far? Have you been spotting words out in the world with those word parts, such as anachronism, meaning “without” (an/a) “time” (chron), or in other words, something that is “out of time”, or rather out of place in a certain time, like Walt Disney World showing up in a Victorian novel, or Ben Franklin strolling Walnut Walk in 2026.

Today, we are moving on to delta—I mean, d—in the alphabet (which term we get from Greek in the first place, named after the first two letters, alpha and beta, of the Greek alphabet-a), so let’s learn about democracy, specifically what it means. No, this is not going to be a political science class, simply an etymology session. The Greek root demo means “people”, and cracy means “rule by”, so put it all together and you have “rule by the people”. Abe Lincoln knew his roots when he cited “government by the people” in his Gettysburg Address.

Other demo- words include demographics, “people-statistics” that include innumerable categories, from age, race and religion to socioeconomic status and number of children. For example, advertisers use demographics to determine the age and income of people who read certain magazines or watch certain TV programs in order to know if their products are an appropriate match. Also epidemic, “upon (epi) the people(demo)”, which refers to a widespread illness (and then there’s epizootic, EH-pih-zoh-AH-tik, which refers to an illness affecting many animals). Pandemic, which we all learned about during the COVID outbreak, means even more—an epidemic that is worldwide, instead of just hitting a group. Pan means “all”.

Next up is dox, meaning “belief, teaching, opinion”, and from this we get nifty words like doxology, the little song we sing about our beliefs while the collection is being taken in church (“Praise God, from whom all blessings flow…”), orthodox, the “standard belief”, and paradox, a conflict of beliefs. An example of paradox is the apparent proof by physicists that light exists both in particle and wave forms simultaneously. Weird, huh?

If that excited you, you’ll really get a “charge” out of dyna, meaning “power”, and sometimes used to refer specifically to electric power. The ancient Greeks didn’t have that, of course, so most words with a long pedigree refer to power in general, such as dynasty, which refers to power that is passed down along family lines. Dynamite is certainly powerful stuff, and for the science geeks among us, thermodynamics, or “power from heat”, is a worthy (and usually environmentally-friendly) pursuit.

So, do you now feel dynamic with all this new knowledge? Then go out and conquer some more words!

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Did you learn the basic steps to building your vocabulary?  here’s step one, here’s step two, and here’s step three.